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Magic Wand of Life

No one have this magic wand of life.As much as we think,God have this magic wand.But suppose if God is very much impressed by your work and want to give this wand.

Question is "What you do with that wand?"

Condition:This wand can do only good and bad things.But if you use for destruction,Then god get it back from you.

How to Overcome the Fear That Comes Along With Goal Achieving

Many times in our lives, we are faced with a decision to move forward in the direction of our dreams. We can see the goal just up ahead, and all we need to do is act. But we stand still, we do not act, and we stay where we are. Why do we do this to ourselves over and over again? Why do we stay in the abusive relationships, the unhealthy environments, the minimum wage job, when really there is an unlimited supply for all of us?

The first step is for us to understand the way we are working, to understand our conscious and subconscious mind.

Step 2

Our conscious mind is where we have the ability to build beautiful pictures for ourselves of the lives we want to be living (although most people rarely use this ability to it's positive). We have really been conditioned to imagine the worst case scenario. And guess what happens? Usually, the worst case scenario, or something quite close to it. Second step: Imagine the best life you could possibly live. What does that look like in your conscious mind?

Step 3

You need to understand that the images you are holding in your conscious mind, when you imagine them over and over again, when you become emotionally involved with them though any of your emotions. Those pictures sink into your marvelous and mysterious subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind is what is dictating the actions that you are taking in your life.

I want to use an example that I have heard from people in the past. I knew a lady who continually found herself in negative relationships. She always asked me "why do I keep attracting men to me who are so abusive and negative". She did not understand that her father was abusive to her mother. Her first boyfriend was abusive, her next boyfriend was abusive. She had a cycle that she had created for herself. In her conscious mind she pictured herself in these situations. That's all she really knew. She never took the time and energy to think about what kind of relationship she would prefer. What would a positive, loving relationship look like to her?

Step 4

Okay, now you may say, "I know what kind of relationship I want though, and I know what kind of home I want to live in. I can see it clearly in my mind." That's great! I'm proud of you and you should be proud of yourself for creating your life the way you want to, regardless of what is going on around you. That's the next step. Give yourself a pat on the back!

Step 5

This is where most people stop. They WISH and they HOPE and they really would like something different, something better in their lives. But they begin to feel afraid. The new idea of a better life is so far from what they are currently experiencing that they let the fear stop them and they go right back into their old ways of being and thinking, wishing and hoping for "better luck." That's step five: Be aware of that fear. Know that the fear is only your old subconscious conditioning trying to get in the way of your new ideas for yourself.

Step 6

Let's use the abusive relationship again. You're in the relationship and you see a better life for yourself. You imagine it over and over, and BANG! All of a sudden you see a way out. You have been given the gift of an intuitive idea. You know that you can change things, you become afraid, but this time you recognize the fear, you step through the fear in ACTION. You take action in whichever positive way you can and you break the old conditioned behavior. You say "oh wow, that was easier than I thought. Why was I so afraid?" It can be challenging to create a better life for yourself, but when you see what it is that has been holding you back all this time, a beautiful life will come rapidly. Keep stepping in the direction of your dreams. Never let fear stop you from being the beautiful, positive, shining light that you are.

What Is ATTITUDE And Why Is It Important To You?

You can't build anything without a solid foundation. The "A" is for Attitude - the foundation sustaining all successful people. Attitude is the "advance man" of our true selves.

The roots spread inward and are anchored in past experiences, and the fruit branch outward exposed for all to see. Attitude is both our best friend and our worst enemy. It is more honest and more consistent than our words.

It is a manner which draws people to us, or repels them. It is never content unless it is expressed. It is the librarian of our past, the speaker of our present, and the prophet of our future. Yet, who controls our attitude?

Your attitude is 100% within your control! There are plenty of things in life that we have no control over. For example, there is absolutely nothing we could do about how people react to us, or our products and services. All we can do is control the manner in which we react. Yet, so many people let the reactions of others determine their outlook for the day. Think about it; are you as positive, upbeat and driven on a day full of rejection or criticism as you would be on a highly successful day?

How do you react to failure? Do you walk away discouraged and complain about it or do you take control, stay focused, accept a lesson learned, and go on with your life? Success is based on good judgment and good judgment is founded on experience. The only way one can gain experience is through failure. We have to fail often to succeed once. This, and the way you react, is a reflection of attitude.

How you react, how you think, what you say to yourself or what you believe about yourself are all within your control and are portrayed by your attitude. You must first realize that your attitude is 100% within your control and then, learn to reflect, confirm and take hold of that attitude.

You must improve the attitude you hold towards yourself. Learn to overcome fear and to deal with rejection and failure in order to increase your productivity while saving time and money.

What is your attitude towards your organization, the team players and the products and services? Do you have an owner's mentality? If so, what would you do differently? Why are you not doing it?

You must address these issues and possess a strong belief before you can move forward. Otherwise, the negativity is reflected in your attitude and is portrayed in your body language.

If you don't believe in yourself and the organization that you represent including the team, the products and the services; then, it is time to find something you do believe in.

It is impossible to engage others to believe in your product or service, if your attitude projects the opposite. Are you ready to improve?

Universal Truth

"I bargained with life for a penny,
And life would pay no more
However I begged at evening
When I counted my scanty store.

For life is a just employer,
He gives you what you ask,
But once you have set the wages,
Why you must bear the task.

I worked for a menials hive,
Only to learn ,dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of life,
Life would have willingly paid."

Joys of effortless living

I often wonder why there is so much struggle to our existence.Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could find a way to make our lives more effortless,balanced and peaceful?A way to free ourselves from our daily dilemmas to creating a life where making choices were much easier,where we experienced minimal effort to move forward,and where we were fully supported by nature in all our pursuits.

The key to this lies in gaining clarity about the purpose of your own existance.Why are we here and what are we aiming to do?I do believe each one of us on earth is hugely gifted and has a special purpose-but do we take the time to discover it in ourselves;or are we just on a treadmill of activity going almost nowhere?Do you want to be more successful or do you want to make a more significant contribution?Do you want more money or greater happiness?Whats the role of family and friends in our life?Whats our commitment to community and environment?If you had to make a real choice,what's that one thing that you would like your life to be about?On your deathbed,what is it that you would feel most proud about your life?

Some of the most powerful statements of purpose tend to revolve around an absolute and inner goal-absolute in that they are not set relative to others and inner in that their progress is not measureable by external parameters of evaluation like carrer,money,fame,achievement.

As you think deeply about your purpose and begin to anchor your life around it,you may well be surprised with the wonderful direction your life may effortlessely begin to take.

Consider that we have two types of purpose in our lives.There's the external purpose and then there's the core purpose.The external purpose of living is the roles we choose our lives-the roles at our work and our relationships;whether we want to be a business owner,an artist,a scientist,a tennis player or a homemaker.Also,our role as a parent,as a child,and as a friend.

The core purpose,i appears may well be the same for all of us-to circle around undertaking the inner journey of self-realisation;to build greater self-awareness and deeper understanding of who we essenstialy are;to conquer our fears and anxieties and eventually to transcend ourselves.

Once we make it the central theme of whatever we do,the notions of happiness,balance,and legacy are not longer illusory.As they say,"It does not matter what you do,but how you do it".

Follow your spirit

The current economic scenario has seen global financial powerhouses topple,left traditional management and financial wisdom looking weak and exposed the extent of human greed.Meanwhile,the violent results of fundamentalism have shown just how often religion is used as a tool of dominance by the intolerant and unenlightened.After centuries of abuse,the planet's fragile ecology is threatened.This may be the first time in man's history that an increasingly interdependent and confused world,faced with multiple threats on multiple fronts,is collectively seeking change.What's needed is a human revolution-of the spirit.

Destruction is a positive sign
When things crumble around us,it leaves us no choice but to rebuild.Rebuilding is easier when there is no need to clean up the legacy garbage.Perhaps the biggest idea thrown up in these troubled times is that organized religion may be out of time.Like organized begging or crime syndicates,organized religion needs to be put down.The only this can happen is if people begin to see 'organized religion' for what it is-the irreligious corruption of spirituality.
The spiritual leader is meant to liberate human beings from bestial forces that shackle it-greed,hatred,anger,ignorance and materialism.By enabling negativity gradually to disintegrate,a spiritual leader can unlock a man's true potential-awakening him to the enormous power of unconditional love and tolerance.

But when this informal,one-on-one interaction with guru begins to take the form of organized groups,individual belief systems,egos and aspirations quickly begin to corrupt.The words of the spiritual master begin to be filtered through veils of individual and collective ignorance till it becomes practically unrecognizable and potentially destructive.

Religion is used to establish the supremacy of a race,to urge the invasion and conquest to geographical territory and to plunder enormous wealth.Freedom dies when it is overlaid with organized religion.The growing popularity of new age spirituality has helped trash religious dogma and control somewhat.People belonging to all faiths-or none-throng yoga center,meditation camps and healing groups.They are not told what to think but invited to explore their inner wisdom by calming mind and body.This is true self-empowerment.Intolerance,dependence,anger and laziness start to give way-at a different pace for different individuals-to be replaced by an understanding that living beings are united by more than the fact they are alive.This exposes the futility of divisiveness and hatred.No force is involved.

The process of unlocking one's hidden spirituality is a personal and individual journey.The true master or guru lies within.It is wise not to take external influences too seriously as these may be at a completely different stage of evolution from you.We may also unknowingly outgrow people who were able to once contribute to our development.Not understanding this can be devastating.Many people continue to seek the advice of those who are morally,intellectually,emotionally and spiritually inferior and then wonder why their world is collapsing around them.

There are a few small examples of how even a good thing can go terribly wrong.A guru,popular for an admittedly revolutionary breathing technique that unlocks spiritual potential,organized camps across many cities on his birthday.Devotees flew in from all over the world and large crowds congregated at the allocated venues.The crowds and cars predictably kicked up so much dust that all those who attended and attempted the deep breathing technique in the middle of the dust haze fell ill.Blind devotion led to near physical annihilation for many.

Amusingly,the first thing that ambassadors for most spiritual organizations will tell you is that they are the custodians of true wisdom.They will claim to be the Noah's ark that can carry you to safety while all other groups drown in their own ignorance.They fail the first test of spirituality:love and respect all.

It's Okay To Cry

Any kind of loss-be it disappointment,setback,the ending of something,any kind of parting,break-up with a partner and death of someone close-warrants proper grieving.The truth is we need time to grieve and heal.We can't get over something quickly,we can only move on progressively.

Moving on does not mean forgetting, nor does it mean shutting out from memory what has happened.It is not the burying of the past and carrying on with life, because it is humanly impossible to forget significant occurences in one's life.What is significant for one need not be for another and one of the most damaging ways to ask a person to 'move on' is to dilute the significance of occurence.Trivialising occurences, however inconsequential they may be, is not the best way to help another cope.

But why most of us do this? Because we are ill at ease with emotions and to most, grief has been defined as a bad and negative emotion. With these ideas, people become afraid to emote, and grief becomes something to be embarrassed or ashamed of.

"Grief is not depression.It is sadness, which is healthy and appropriate. In sadness, people appraise their loss and comprehend the disadvantages that accrue. So a person who brought pleasure to your life and who is now no more, may bring some barrenness for you. You will miss him, be sentimental about the good times and reminisce about the bonds you shared."

"Grieving is the human beings innate mechanism to restore emotional balance following separation of a loved one.As the emotional rheostat gets disturbed and is in turmoil, a natural process of weeping and sharing begins. This continues for at least a month. This tune of the mind, if blocked, can explode elsewhere in the body. As wound heals, any method to accelerate or delay it, is harmful. Unexpected separation and death of loved ones, such as a child or young adult, may take longer, look for depression, which may need treatment."

That's why i m saying that-

"Its OKAY to CRY"

Live Outside The Box

Most of the world likes to play it safe. They go to their safe jobs, come home to their safe relationships, they drive safe cars, they invest money in safe corporations, they invest money in safe corporations, they think safe thoughts, and they want nothing more than to feel safe and secure. Survival of the fittest dictates that these people live another day and therefore get to breed and would make up the majority of the population. We could say that they play it smart. But there is another kind, too. This other group lives for thrills. They don’t just occasionally think outside the box, they actually prefer to live outside the box. This is a group who thrives on adventure, change, and newness. They love innovative new ideas, they like to explore new things, and push the envelope beyond its capabilities. They are the visionaries who perceive something beyond where we stand today.

This group often does not feel understood not supported by the mainstream population. They are not rebels, although they are often accused of being rebellious because they do not embrace the status quo. This group is not anti-anything. They do not define themselves by not being a member of someone else’s group. They do not require group consensus to be who they are. Young adults often think that by dressing badly or by misbehaving that they are somehow brave and different from whatever it is that they are opposing, but that is just anger turned inside out. Most of the time they are not accomplishing anything by simply making a mess of their lives. They are not making a point, they are not changing the world, they are simply behaving in a manner that causes people to shun them. That is not the group I am talking about today. This group is made up of people like Albert Einstein, Mahatma Gandhi, Nikola Tesla, Susan Ba Anthony, Melissa Etheridge, Nelson Mandela, and countless others who do not strive to be different nor to go against the mainstream beliefs. They simply are different, they think different, they think different, they live different, and they make passionate choices to contribute something meaningful to humanity despite the fact that others oppose them. All of these people stand tall despite the chaos and anger of those surrounding them. “Why can’t you just leave well enough alone? Why do you always have to push people too far? Why can’t you just get along?”

Those who would keep things safe and comfortable become frightened and angry at these innovative new thinkers. They torment them, threaten them, mistreat them, ostracize them, and create a storm of ugliness to try and stop these people from simply sharing the gifts of their hearts that they were born to share with humanity. Years later, often after generations can look back in hindsight and see their bravery as admirable. But in the moment, these people are historically treated terribly. These people are typically men and women of peace who do not go out with an angry rebellious need to stir up trouble. They fight for higher ideals because in their heart of hearts they truly believe that things could be better for mankind. They hold a vision of better things to come and they follow that vision wherever it takes them. Today there are millions of people who would change the world with their beautiful open minded hearts and their incredibly brilliant minds, especially the upcoming teenagers and young adults in their early twenties. They feel that there is no point in even trying because the current political and cultural environment is so against them. I would be lying if I claimed that what you see as extreme hostility towards change was not at a peak right now. You are right. They do not want to change again, but you are right, it is time for another change and you are right, it is time for another change and you are the ones to help bring it. Do not be afraid of the backlash. Stand tall and do what you know in your heart is right and just for all, not just what benefits a chosen few. You know that ignorance can no longer rule the people. You know that blind obedience is no longer a viable option.

To you I say, meet me in the eye of the storm and together we will steer this mess in another direction. Jump into the storm. Do not stand on the sidelines too lazy and scared to do anything about all of the ugliness going on around you. Jump into the storm. Swim and fight you way to the center of the vortex. There we will sit together in the quiet and find the solutions. Until we embrace the eye of the storm and really see what is at the root of humanity’s hatred of each other, we will never find a long-term solution that creates real peace and equality for everyone. We need to heal our planet, our bodies, and the spiritual hearts of our species. People say that the signs are all here and Armageddon has begun. Why save the planet if the savior is coming to take the good and holy people away to a better place? Since we are not going to be here much longer we may as well fry it on our way out. How selfish to assume that you god will come carry you off to heaven, therefore you do not have to care for the people and planet that are going to be left in the wake of you final choices. Who is to say that is no the ultimate test of who stays and who gets to ascend to a better place? If you had to pick and choose who were truly worthy of burning in hell or going to heaven, would you pick the folks who were killing and raging war in the name of god or would you pick the people who were crying out for love, equality, and to save the planet?

I stand here in the eye of the storm, turmoil and war all around me, my heart quiet and strong. The vision is very clear here. I will do my part to save the planet for the sake of those left behind. It is not for me to say who should or should not prevail. Someone will be left standing here on this water, with this soil. For them, I say let’s create a plan so that they have the best possible chance of rebuilding a new world. For love of this place with its beaches, mountains, and forests that I love so much, I will hold the love of Mother nature in my heart. You know, if the savior comes to haul all the good guys off to a better place, I think I will volunteer to stay behind to help make this battered planet a place of beauty one more. When you are done with your are done with your religious wars and your ascensions into heaven, give the planet back to those of us who care for her and please do not come back. Embrace the eye of the storm, for the vision is very clear here.

Nature of true development

Self-analysis changes the life. A man constructed a splendid house. Friends who came were delighted.The rooms on the ground floor were large and well-decorated They saw the first floor, the second floor and the third floor also. They observed that the upper floor rooms were simpler.

Friends asked, "Where do you reside?" He replied, "I live on the third floor and my servants live on the ground floor." They were astonished, "What a strange situation, the master resides in simple rooms and servants live in well-furnished rooms!" The owner clarified that there was a time when his own mother was also a servant. His mother had lived a tough life and she had to eke out a living as a house help. He knew therefore that servants, after having to work hard all day, deserved at least some comfort.

What are the hurdles that vitiate the simplicity and dignity of life ruthlessly? Contemplation of hurdles will pave the way to change our lifestyle. Deception is a hurdle. In that state, solutions will not be workable. Problems will follow and continue. Faith begets faith and deception generates deception. In cunningness, first of all man assumes others to be wicked. He will talk sweetly in front of others and backbite later. Deception is the biggest encumbrance to attaining liberation.

The second hurdle is desire. To have desire is natural but to have endless desires is not. Today's economist declares that when we feel content our development will stop.Ultimately development also has to be categorically defined and limited. A single man perpetuates development till he economically and geographically makes an empire for himself. This cannot be termed as development. This will be tanta-mount to an injustice, atrocity, exploitation and cruelty towards humanity. Development ought to be in the correct perspective.

Is development spreading out, extending to the whole cosmos? Acharya Somasundar has said in the Sindur Prakaran that if a man is gentle, virtuous, and does everything virtuously and ethically then even if he is not doing well monetarily, it is fine. On the other hand, if someone makes a huge pile of money by fraudulent means, it spells disaster.

When a man is thin, he looks handsome and graceful. When his body becomes obese, then his future is not good. Doctors agree that if one is thin and lean then he will live comfortably and have longevity.

The membership of the Mayo Club, USA, is restricted to only those who have attained a hundred years of age. A person from that club observed that so far all club members happen to be thin and lean. A thin man can move, sit and stand comfortably. Sometimes fat is not favourable to good health.The gist of development is not only expansion but also limited growth. Today we are unable to find solutions because the interpretation of development by economists is causing difficulties. Yesterday a man said, "You said in the discourse that there has to be some limitation or boundary, then how can development take place?" If somebody really lags behind in the race, then he will be the most fortunate man in the world. Where are such lucky people? Where is such sacrificing capacity? Everybody is running, without knowing where this competitive race will terminate.

In the field of self-development, we can be limitless but there we have clearly limited ourselves. When the outlook becomes false, limitless desires crop up. A peaceful and tension-free life is threatened by three encumbrances, namely, false outlook, limitless desires and deception.